The debate between nudism and exhibitionism is fun, fascinating and can be lively at times. Nudists often emphasize that their lifestyle is not about sexuality, but rather about embracing freedom and self-expression without constraints. Some may think of exhibitionists as the creepy guy with an overcoat flashing people, but in reality, exhibitionists, for the most part, like to show off their bodies in a way that is respectful to others. While acknowledging their inclination towards exhibitionism, some individuals may claim to enjoy nudism in order to avoid being stigmatized.
Nude beaches serve as a common ground for these two lifestyles or preferences, attracting both nudists and exhibitionists. For exhibitionists like myself and my wife, nude beaches provide a space to comfortably engage in our inclination to be seen, especially for women who can do so at their own pace and in a safe environment. This setting also offers a level of acceptance, reducing the perception of our behavior as purely fetishistic. The legality and lack of social repercussions make nude beaches a rare opportunity for men to openly display themselves also. For both women and men that like to show off, nude beaches are a perfect environment.
One of the things I enjoy about visiting nude beaches, a hobby that my wife also shares, is the presence of many voyeurs. You cannot be an exhibitionist without voyeurs. The majority of the voyeurs are men, although women also appear to engage in this activity. It’s quite common to encounter 20 to 30 men who simply stroll by, both cloth and nude, coming within 3 or 4 feet of us to discreetly observe. Even though their sunglasses often conceal their gaze, it’s evident that they are looking at my wife’s pussy. On occasion, my wife even adjusts her position to allow for better viewing as they pass by. I remember a particular incident from about a year ago when a couple initiated a conversation and stood just a few feet away from my wife, engaging in conversation while maintaining a close proximity to her. It was an incredibly thrilling experience.
A conversation about nudist beaches arose between my wife and a long-time friend, who revealed her enjoyment of visiting such beaches, sometimes alone and sometimes with her partner. She was not dating anyone at the time though. Her friend even mentioned considering herself a nudist under specific circumstances, which my wife found intriguing. Despite our belief that most nudists are, in essence, exhibitionists, my wife understands the need to avoid associating nudism with exhibitionism in discussions with nudists, as they may distance themselves from the latter label. So they just chatted and shared some of the beaches they have visited, leaving it a high level discussion.
My wife surprised me by bringing up the idea of visiting a nude beach with her friend, which was unexpected given her usual discretion about our shared hobby. This conversation took an unexpected turn when my wife mentioned our plans to visit a nude beach, and her friend expressed interest in joining us. The prospect of seeing her friend naked and being seen nude by her friend was very exciting for me, a feeling my wife teasingly acknowledged as a turn-on for me. Initially, I thought the idea of visiting the nude beach with her friend would remain a mere fantasy, but to my surprise, they set a date to go. Up to this point, we had never shared this fetish of ours with anyone we knew, let alone participated in it with someone else.
On the day of our visit, as we drove to the beach, we engaged in casual conversation in the car, and the topic of being nude didn’t come up. Upon arrival, the packed parking lot indicated that it would be an eventful day at the beach. Preparing the umbrella and towels was filled with excitement and tension for me. Usually, my wife would undress completely, then put on only a swimsuit cover that barely conceals her, as part of the thrill of potentially being seen nearly nude in the parking lot and on the way to the beach. There are a lot of people there who are not going down on the beach sometimes, so this gives her an opportunity to show off right away to people with clothes on, which is even hotter than showing off to people nude. Today, however, she chose not to do so, feeling it might be too provocative. Her friend wore a sundress with a swimsuit underneath, a large-brimmed hat, and dark sunglasses.
The walk to the beach is a few hundred yards, and the first thing we encounter is the real exhibitionist setup as we come off the pier onto the beach. The primary reason for this setup, at least in our case, is the observation that throughout the day, numerous men, women, and couples walk to the end of the pier but do not proceed onto the beach, many of them seem to be vacationers who simply enjoy observing without actually joining the beach activities, remaining fully clothed while they do so. It’s evident that their main purpose is to observe, without any illusions, that it is a nude beach. As I said earlier, it’s often more enjoyable to exhibit to clothed women than to those who are nude. It seems more forbidden. And this is really the only environment I have found where a guy can do this with respect to the people he is showing off to and not look like a pervert. After all, it is a nude beach.
As we reach the beach, the girls express a desire to walk a bit further down and not stay in the more crowded area, a request that I am perfectly fine with and not surprised by, considering that this visit is to a nudist beach, which differs from my personal preference for exhibitionism and voyeurism. During our walk to our chosen spot, we pass people of all ages and sizes, both individuals and couples, and even encounter a couple of women who are there by themselves; a less common occurrence.
When we arrived at our chosen spot, I took out the umbrellas and secured them in the ground, laid out the towels, and began to undress. My wife and I casually undressed, trying to act as if it was just another day at the beach, despite being surrounded by around 50 naked individuals of varying ages and body shapes. I applied sunscreen to my wife’s back, and we stood there completely naked while her friend was still in the process of undressing. The heat was intense, and the fact that I was showing her friend my dick and was about to see her naked was causing me to get hard; a fact that my wife playfully teased me about in private. So I went into the water to cool off.
I am not hung, in fact my dick is small when not hard. It is about 7 inches when hard so I guess it is small to about average when hard, but small when soft. I still like showing it off though. My wife weighs 130 pounds and looks awesome for her age, with medium-sized breasts and some hair in her pubic area, although it’s evident that she has trimmed it. Additionally, she does not have any tan lines. As her friend began to remove her swimsuit, it was evident that she did have tan lines, suggesting that while she may have gone to nude beaches in the past, it wasn’t a regular occurrence. Her breasts were noticeably paler, which aroused me further as I have a preference for tan lines. Seeing them seems to say nobody has seen these. Her friend had a slightly fuller figure but not significantly so, with larger breasts and more pubic hair. Despite the tension, we all maintained an air of normalcy.
After my wife and her friend laid down on the towels, I mentioned that I was going to take a walk down the beach, giving them some space and time to relax. As the day went on, everyone grew comfortable with being nude, treating it as a normal occurrence and engaging in casual conversations, similar to what one would do at a beach while wearing swimsuits. I found it thrilling to watch my wife sunbathe naked with her friend for four hours, especially with numerous people passing by, some clothed and others nude.
When you go to the restroom, we have to get dressed. We can technically only be nude on the beach. When her friend went, she put on a sheer sundress, from which her nipples and pussy hair was clearly visible in the sunlight. I mentioned to my wife that it seemed her friend was intentionally exposing herself to clothed individuals. The nude beach is located at the end of a scenic route where many bikers enjoy riding due to its safety and the availability of a restroom halfway through the ride. Throughout the day, over a hundred bikers stop at the restroom to take a break, as I have observed when accompanying my wife in the past. On one occasion, as my wife’s friend walked towards the restroom, I followed behind her and noticed approximately seven bikers in the parking lot who had a clear view of her pussy and tits because she had to walk within a few feet of them to get to the restroom. Despite this, she continued walking without acknowledging their presence, and they had sunglasses on so you could not see them staring and, without saying anything as she passed by, providing them with a close and unobstructed view.
As the day progressed, it became clear that her friend also enjoyed exhibitionism, not just nudism. My wife then shared that she enjoys showing her pussy to voyeurs by subtly spreading her legs as people walk by. Her friend laughed and said it was naughty but exciting, and they even discussed it as people passed by, gradually spreading their legs even more. This resulted in being able to see their pussy lips. I talked to my wife about it later, and I I told her I found myself getting aroused constantly and needing to cool off in the water. She laughed and mentioned that she also was becoming very wet as the day went on.
When it was time to leave, my wife followed her usual routine of wearing only a minimal cover-up suitable for a swimsuit. Her friend playfully teased her about not bothering to get fully dressed for the walk to the car. Unfortunately, her friend did put on her swimsuit, and it would have been very hot if she rode all the way home with just the see-through sun dress. The swimsuit cover my wife had on was minimal and barely concealed her, making it easy to see her pussy on the drive home.
Following this incident, my wife and I have talked about it a bunch of times, though we haven’t discussed it with her friend or made plans for another trip, but it was a fun day for both my wife and myself. It would be very hot and fun if her friend started dating a guy who was into nude beaches, and we could double date for a day at the nude beach.